Shake your wings and your tail.

The ugly ducklings, the black sheep, and that feeling of not belonging.

When you exile the witch out of the Coven, you are risking letting the witch discover an incredible power and potential, and once that happens, don't be surprised or scared to see witches running with wolves, stalking prey in the dark night, and penetrating your nightmares once you fear the witch.

When people are victims of constant physical and psychological abuse, and constant narcissistic abuse disguised as "humble leadership" by those around them, often in the same family. And these people (victims of mistreatment and psychological abuse) in turn are surrounded by those silent witnesses that normalize abuse in the family, these people understand that the system to which they belong is failing, and when that happens, they begin to be considered " the black sheep "," the ugly duckling "of the family, and it is only a matter of time for these individuals to develop their own defense system, most of the time a system with characteristics hostility towards others.

Once the person who has been continuously humiliated, offended, mistreated, belittled, insulted, deceived, and exiled, develops his own (and perhaps very hostile at times) defense system. The entire society seeks to distort the entire reality and perspective of the environment (gaslighting) in order to antagonize the victim, and then the victim is official "a rebel without a cause", "the black sheep that derailed from the flock", "the wolf Sheepskin dress on which we must all take care ".

Yes, the black sheep, that ugly duckling of the family, that person who is literally traumatized by the constant abuse, aggression, manipulation, and contempt of the environment, usually develops a tough personality (with clear characteristics of aggression and hostility, which many times do not seem to be conventionally accepted), and that rude personality is his shield to take care of himself again against those silent accomplices who have acted (or not) against the abuse and mistreatment of this individual for long periods of time, which can be months, can be years, it can be decades, and if you believe in reincarnation, it can even be lifetimes.

The black sheep are the ones who carry the greatest weight because they are the ones who always carry on their back the shadows of their own family system, a system that is clearly broken, and many other times it is the shadow of a social system, a system that is entirely built to cut everyone with the same scissors and exile anyone who refuses to have the same cut.

If you are the black sheep of the family, or if you consider that for some reason, you are a silent witness to the physical and psychological abuse of someone else, maybe it is time for you to be honest with yourself and ask yourself, what are they? those shadows of your belief system (family or social) that you are carrying with you.

~ whose violence am I carrying?

~ whose narcissism am I carrying?

~ Whose fanaticism am I carrying?

~ the abusive characteristics of whom am I carrying?

Remember, witches are all those who dare to break the rules created by old men, and from their own individual freedom, witches find the power to manifest that version of themselves that is not tied to social norms, witches meet the trauma and find there the power to heal, modern witches are the healers and masters of the modern society.

Remember also, "black sheeps" are nothing more than an easier-to-understand version of "the ugly duckling", and in the wise words of Clarissa Pinkola Estes: ugly ducklings are nothing more than beautiful and glorious swans that fell into the wrong nest.

Recognize and honor your own essence, and your own way of being special. You ugly duckling, shake your little wings and your tiny tail and fly until you find that nest where you feel loved.

w/ infinite blessings, abundance, and love.

Elo.

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